While that's the title of the blog...I do not have a spring fling. But, I do have a question for the readers out there. What did you think of the publicized article by Tracy McMillan?
Here is the link if you need it:
I thought the article was hilarious. But more importantly it touched on some really important truths that I think have to be dealt with. Many women are confused into thinking that they can place numerous demands on a man that they feel they "deserve" when often we don't want to face the fact that we may not be living up to being the best version of ourself. And when I say best version please don't think I am only referring to cooking, cleaning, or being a "perfect" housewife and mother. I am referring to qualities like knowing how to support a man emotionally and being a good friend. Intangible qualities, that mean you are suitable to supporting a lifelong partnership.
In Hill Harper's book the conversation he says many women are funny and fantastic with friends but dull on dates. They change their persona when dating men, usually due to baggage or fear. Maybe you are already working on you , or maybe you feel you have it all together and the men are the ones messed up. I don't know but I would like to hear what you think...